Showing posts with label another amateur housewife. Show all posts
Showing posts with label another amateur housewife. Show all posts

Monday, December 19, 2011

Guest Post: A Prayerful Birth

Without going into too much detail about birth, I wanted to share the most beautiful piece of the experience with you.
I asked God to help me renew my trust in Him and friendship with Him by sharing this birth with Him. I wanted to share the fears, the embarrassments, the suffering, the joy -  the whole thing. To make sure this actually happened, I asked my husband to help me pray during labor and birth.
Birth is intense so we kept it simple. Inhale, exhale, "one, Jesus I trust in you, " inhale, exhale, "two, Jesus I trust in you,"… inhale, exhale, "ten, Jesus  I trust in you." We prayed like this every five minutes or so for about 8 hours, sometimes silently, sometimes my husband prayed aloud for me. And during transition when I turned to him and said "I'm scared" he held my hand, locked eyes with me, and prayed aloud.                          
I can't remember any of the words he said but I can't imagine a more wonderful or husbandly thing.
And here's our little girl. 8lbs 3oz 21in. Big sister thinks she's awesome.
God Bless,
Meghan

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Guest Post: Two Weeks of Homemade Freezer Meals

Dear Readers,

In the weeks (days?) before giving birth I have this amazing sense of urgency about everything in life. I really like this attitude and wish I could keep it throughout the year. One big project I've been working on that might be of use to others is cramming two weeks of prepared, quick fix meals into our pantry and freezer. This is my first attempt at homemade freezer meals and I learned a lot. Enjoy!

- Meghan


Guiding Principles: The menu was designed for a family with a newborn. Each dish is a complete meal with protein, vegetables, and starches. I was especially interested in including vegetables since these are often low or omitted altogether in food from restaurants. Once frozen, each meal takes minimal effort to complete and serve; meals generally only need to be moved to the refrigerator to thaw then moved to the oven or slow cooker for baking. Recipes are for 8 servings each. For a small family like ours (2 small kids), each meal gives as dinner with enough for an unexpected guest and lunch the next day.

Two Methods: While researching and choosing methods for prepared meals, I found two methods that I thought were particularly helpful: slow cooker and double dish. For the slow cooker method of making prepared meals, you do a monster grocery shopping trip, label zip-lock bags for each meal, assemble corresponding dry and fresh ingredients in the bags, freeze fresh food, and store dry food. No cooking is done in advance. When you want to eat one of the prepared meals, you simply dump the frozen and dry ingredients in the slow cooker and turn it on. There is substantial (unattended) cooking time but minimal preparation time. For the double dish method, you make double portions of meals you prepare throughout the week, eat one portion, and freeze the other portion for later. Naturally, some meals lend themselves to freezing better than others. Baked, one-dish meals generally seem to freeze well (shepherd's pie, lasagna, jambalaya, etc.). The double dish method is not "once a month cooking" but with planning, over the course of a week, you can have a good stash of prepared meals in the freezer with minimal additional effort. When you want to eat one of the prepared meals, you thaw it in the fridge and finish baking or warm in the oven for a relatively short amount of time - minimal cooking time and minimal preparation time. For best results, freeze food as quickly as possible and thaw food as slowly as possible. 

Below is a list of meals with corresponding thawing and cooking times. I posted this in the pantry so we could cross off meals as we ate them and leave comments for next time.


Meal                                                         Thaw Time       Cook Time            Comments
Beef Stroganoff                                          24 hours            8 hours
Chicken Tortilla Soup                                  none                 8 hours
Beefy Lasagna                                           24 hours            1 hour
Pot Roast with Drop Biscuits                       24 hours            8 hours
Vegetarian Chili                                          none                  8 hours                  yum!
Shepherd's Pie                                           24 hours             1 hour
Salsa Verde Enchiladas                              24 hours             1 hour                    yum!
Jambalaya                                                 24 hours             30 min
Bean Soup with Kale and Drop Biscuits        none                   8 hours                  yum!
Meatloaf with Spinach and Mushrooms         24 hours             1 hour                    yum!
Pulled Pork BBQ                                        24 hours             10 hours
Mushroom Barley Lentil Stew                      none                    8 hours                 hearty
Chicken and Rice Casserole                        24 hours              1 hour
Chicken and Butternut Squash Risotto          24 hours             30 min                    ok




Before Cooking Day: Roast Chickens and Chicken Stock

In the stock pot, brown 2 diced carrots and 2 sliced onions per chicken in a bit of oil. Place a cheesecloth bag in the stockpot. Place chicken organs in the cheesecloth bag and rinse each chicken with 6c water into the stock pot. Bake each chicken uncovered at 350F for 1 hour 15 min until internal temperature is 180F. Remove and cool. Pick meat from the bones and place skin and bones in cheesecloth bag in the stockpot. For each chicken, also add 1 bulb garlic cut in half, 1/2 tsp dried thyme, 1/2 tsp dried parsley, 1/2 tsp dried basil to the cheesecloth bag. Add water to cover the chicken bones, about 6 cups per chicken. Simmer for at least 4 hours over low heat. Remove cheesecloth bag and discard contents. Refrigerate chicken stock. When cool, skim most of the fat from the chicken stock. Cold chicken stock should gel.



Method 1: Slow cooker extravaganza. Huge grocery trip followed by several hours in the kitchen assembling fresh and dry ingredients in labeled zip-locks. Freeze fresh ingredients and store dry ingredients. No cooking.

Beef Stroganoff
2lbs cubed beef stew meat
2 (10.75 oz) cans condensed mushroom soup
1c chopped onion
2tbs Worcestershire sauce
1/2c water
1/2lb cream cheese
1/2 bag frozen mixed vegetables

Combine meat, soup, onion, Worcestershire sauce and water and freeze.

Thaw in the refrigerator at least 24 hours. Cook in the slow cooker on low for 8-10 hours or high for 4-6 hours. Stir in mixed vegetables and cream cheese shortly before serving.


Chicken Tortilla Soup
1/2 bag kidney beans
1/2 bag black beans
1 onion, chopped
1 green pepper, chopped
1 red pepper, chopped
1/2 bag frozen corn
2 cloves garlic
1 (8oz) can tomato sauce
2 (10oz) cans diced tomatoes with green chilies (undrained)
1 can beer
1/2 tsp cayenne
1/2 tsp oregano
1 tsp paprika
1 tbs cumin
shredded meat from 1 roasted chicken
4c chicken broth
1 bag shredded cheddar
1 bag tortilla chips

Combine dry ingredients, label and set aside with canned ingredients. Chop and freeze onion and other perishable items.

Place all ingredients in the slow cooker and cook on low for 8-10 hours or high 4-6 hours. Serve with shredded cheddar and tortilla chips.


Pot Roast
2 (10.75 oz) cans condensed cream of mushroom soup
1 pkg dry onion soup mix
1 1/4c water
5 1/2lbs pot roast
2 carrots, diced
3 potatoes (or a bag of little fingerling potatoes)
1/2 bag frozen mixed veggies

Freeze vegetables and pot roast bundled with frozen mixed vegetables.

Thaw in the refrigerator at least 24 hours. Place all ingredients in the slow cooker. Coat meat with soup mixture. Cook on low 8-10 hours or high 3-4 hours. Serve with biscuits and mixed vegetables.


Drop Biscuits
2c white flour
2c wheat flour
1/4 c sugar
3 tbs baking powder (slightly less than 3 tbs)
1 tsp salt
1 c butter
1 1/3 c milk
2 eggs

Combine dry ingredients in a bowl. Cut in butter until mixture resembles coarse crumbs. Whisk milk and egg then stir into crumb mixture until moistened. Drop heaping spoonfuls 2" apart onto an ungreased baking sheet. Bake at 450F for 10-12 min until golden brown. Makes 16-24 biscuits. Cool then freeze. 


Vegetarian Chili
1/2 bag black beans
1/2 bag kidney beans
1/2 bag pinto beans
1 (14.5 oz) can chopped tomatoes in puree
1 (6 oz) can tomato paste
1 red bell pepper, diced
1 green bell pepper, diced
1 carrot, diced
1 stalk celery, diced
1/2 bag frozen corn
1 heaping tbs dried parsley
1 heaping tbs dried oregano
1 tbs basil
1 tbs dried garlic
1/2 tsp paprika
1 tsp ground cumin
1/2 tsp cayenne pepper
6c worth vegetable bullion
5c water
1 pkg shredded cheese

Combine dry ingredients and set aside with canned ingredients. Chop fresh vegetables and freeze with corn, bundled with shredded cheese. Combine all ingredients in slow cooker. Cook on low 8-10 hours or high 4-6 hours. Serve with shredded cheese.


Pulled Pork BBQ
1/2 bag black eyed peas
1/2 bag collard greens
5lbs pork butt
1 bottle BBQ sauce
1 bag frozen mixed veggies
1 bag hamburger buns

Bundle ingredients above and freeze or store as appropriate. Thaw pork butt in the refrigerator at least 24 hours. Layer black eyed peas and collard greens on the bottom of the crock pot. Wrap pork butt in cheese cloth and place on top of beans and greens. Pour BBQ sauce on top. Cook on low 8-10 hours. Serve on hamburger buns with additional BBQ sauce.


Mushroom Barley Lentil Stew
2 qts vegetable broth
2c sliced fresh button mushrooms
1 onion, diced
4 cloves garlic, minced
1oz dried shitake mushrooms
3/4 c uncooked pearl barley
3/4 c dry lentils
2 tsp dried summer savory
3 bay leaves
1tsp dried basil
1/2 tsp black pepper
salt to taste

Freeze fresh ingredients and store dry ingredients. Place all ingredients in the slow cooker and cook on high 4-6 hours or low 8-10 hours.



Method 2: When making dinner, make double portions. Eat one and freeze one.

Beef and Vegetable Lasagna
12 no boil lasagna noodles
1 (24 oz) container 4% small-curd smooth-and-creamy cottage cheese
1 (16 oz) container ricotta cheese
2 large eggs, beaten
1/2c pesto or 1 pkg dry pesto mix
1 pkg frozen spinach or collard greens
 (10 oz) shredded mozzarella
1lb lean ground beef
1/2c chopped onion
2 (24 oz) jars tomato-and-basil pasta sauce
1 small eggplant, diced
8 oz. mushrooms, sliced
1 red bell pepper, diced

Cook ground beef and vegetables in a skillet over medium, drain and stir into pasta sauce. In a separate container, stir together cottage cheese, ricotta, eggs, greens and pesto. In a lightly greased baking dish layer 1c beef, 3 noodles, 2 1/2c cheese mixture, 3 noodles, 2c beef, 3 noodles, remaining cheese mixture, 3 noodles, remaining beef. Sprinkle mozzarella on top. Freeze. Thaw in the refrigerator at least 24 hours. Bake, covered at 375 for 45 minutes then uncover and bake 20 minutes until cheese is browned.

                 
Shepherd's Pie
1 lb ground beef
1/2 lb ground lamb
1c chopped onion
2 garlic cloves, minced
1c frozen peas, thawed
1 can chickpeas
1 carrot
1 stalk celery
1 tsp Worcestershire sauce
1/2tsp salt
1/2tsp dried thyme
1/4tsp ground pepper
1tbs flour
1(14 oz) can stewed tomatoes
1 bay leaf
2tbs red wine vinegar
2 1/2lbs potatoes
1c milk
1pkg cheese

Boil then mash potatoes with milk and cheese. Brown beef in skillet over medium-high heat. Using beef drippings, saute onion, carrot, celery, until soft. Stir in beef, peas, and other ingredients and cook briefly on medium high stirring constantly. Add tomatoes, bay leaf, and vinegar and cook 5 min until slightly thickened. Transfer to a lightly greased 3qt baking dish. Cover with mashed potatoes and cheese. Freeze. Thaw in the refrigerator at least 24 hours. Bake at 400 loosely covered for 25 minutes, uncovered for 25 minutes.


Chicken and Rice Casserole
1 (6.9 oz) pkg uncle ben's wild rice
1tbs butter
2c chicken broth
shredded meat from 1 roasted chicken
1c sliced mushrooms
1/2tsp garlic powder
3/4c sour cream
1/4tsp pepper
1 (10 oz) can condensed cream of mushroom soup
1/4c crushed multigrain crackers (about 6 crackers)
1tbs butter, melted

Cook wild rice with chicken broth, stopping with rice a bit undercooked. Saute mushrooms, garlic. Mix chicken, vegetables, rice mix, sour cream, and spices. Spoon into a lightly greased 2qt casserole dish and freeze. Freeze separately cracker crumbs and 1 tbs shredded frozen butter. Thaw in the refrigerator at least 24 hours. Add cracker crumb topping and bake at 350 for 35 minutes or until thoroughly heated. 
           
Salsa Verde Enchiladas
1 roasted chicken, shredded
1 jar (8 oz) mild salsa verde
1 can refried beans
1/2 c chicken broth
6 green onions (thinly sliced)
1/2 c cilantro (chopped)
1/4 c lime juice
1 pkg frozen spinach
16 corn tortillas
1 (8oz) container sour cream
1/2 pkg (8oz) queso fresco

Grease 2 aluminum baking dishes. Shred meat from chickens (6 c). Stir in 1/2 c salsa verde. Boil remaining salsa verde, green onions, lime juice, and 2 tbs cilantro for 2 min then keep warm over low heat. Use tongs to dip each tortilla into salsa mix for 10 sec, place on wax paper, fill with some spinach, 1/3 c shredded chicken, and some refried beans, roll up and place seam down into greased baking dish. Stir sour cream and broth into salsa verde mixture and spoon over filled tortillas. Sprinkle 1 c cheese and 1tbs cilantro over each. Cover with aluminum foil, cool and freeze. To reheat, loosen cover and heat at 350F for 45 min then uncover and heat 15 min longer.


Butternut Squash Risotto
4c cubed butternut squash
shredded meat from 1 roast chicken
1/4 c butter
1 onion, minced
2c Arborio rice
2/3 c dry white wine
5 c chicken stock
1/2 c grated parmesan
salt, pepper, cinnamon, nutmeg to taste

Cut squash in half, remove seeds, and roast squash at 350 for 20 min or until tender. Remove and mash with a fork. Saute onions in butter on medium high until soft, stir in rice and cook about 5 min until rice is glossy and onion begins to brown. Add white wine and cook stirring constantly until evaporated. Add mashed squash and 1/3 chicken stock. Reduce heat to medium, and cook about 7 min until broth is absorbed, add 1/2 remaining chicken stock and stir until absorbed. Remove from heat with rice under-cooked, add remaining stock, shredded chicken, parmesan, salt, pepper, cinnamon and nutmeg. Cool and freeze. Thaw in refrigerator at least 24 hours. Reheat by sautéing until smooth and creamy.
                 

Jambalaya
1 tbs olive oil
1 lb smoked sausage (cut in 1/4" slices)
1 onion (chopped)
1 green bell pepper (1c chopped)
1 (14.5 oz) can diced tomatoes with juice
1c uncooked rice
2c chicken broth
1 tbs minced garlic
1/2 tsb Cajun seasoning
3 bay leaves
1/4 tsp dried thyme leaves
salt to taste

Heat olive oil over medium heat in cast iron skillet. Add sausage and cook for 2 min then add onion, and bell pepper. Season with salt and Cajun seasoning. Stir 6-8 min until vegetables are soft. Stir in rice until evenly coated with veggie mixture. Pour in tomatoes with juice, garlic, chicken broth, and herbs. Bring to a simmer over medium high heat then reduce to medium low, cover, and simmer 20 min. Cool then freeze. Thaw in refrigerator at least 24 hours. Reheat on medium heat in cast iron skillet.


Meatloaf with Spinach and Mushrooms
2 tbs olive oil
1 onion, chopped
2 cloves garlic
1/2 tsp dried thyme
1/2 c ketchup
1/4 c brown sugar
4 tsp vinegar
2 large eggs
1/2 c milk
2 tsp dijon mustard
2 tsp Worcestershire
1 tsp salt
1/2 tsp pepper
1/4 tsp Tabasco
2/3 lb ground beef
2/3 lb ground pork
2/3 lb ground lamb
2/3 c crushed saltines
1/3 c minced fresh parsley
8 oz mushrooms
1 pkg frozen chopped spinach

Saute onion in oil until translucent then add thyme and garlic for just a moment and set aside to cool. Saute mushrooms with spinach and set aside to cool. Mix ketchup, brown sugar and vinegar, label and set aside. Thoroughly mix ground meats, parsley, sautéed onions and remaining wet ingredients. Roll into a rectangle approx. 18"x8". Spread vegetable mixture evenly over meat leaving 1/2" edge. Roll up meat and veggies. Freeze loaf bundled with ketchup topping. Thaw at least 24 hours in the fridge. Pour topping over loaf and cook in baking pan at 350F for 1 hour or until browned and juices run clear.

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Guest Post: Thoughts on Baby Books

I put together a baby book for my firstborn. I wanted something that would make tangible the earliest moments of her existence. Thank you iPhoto for making this so easy. I started the book with scripture, a portion of Psalm 139 that reads like a children's story. It's extremely similar to the story of the runaway bunny who tries to run away from his mother's love but cannot. I wonder if Margaret Wise Brown's book was inspired by this psalm or if it speaks to the universality of mankind's longing for God's inescapable love.

O where can I go from your spirit,
or where can I flee from your face?
If I climb the heavens, you are there.
If I lie in the grave, you are there.
If I take the wings of the dawn and dwell at the sea's furthest end,
Even there your hand would lead me, your right hand would hold me fast.
If I say: "Let the darkness hide me and the light around me be night,"
Even darkness is not dark for you
and the night is as clear as the day.
For it was you who created my being,
knit me together in my mother's womb
I thank you for the wonder of my being
      for the wonders of all your creation.

The pages include:
  • A wedding photo (seemed like a good place to start)
  • The wedding vow about lovingly accepting children from God
  • A pregnant belly photo
  • An ultrasound photo
  • A paragraph on how we chose her name
  • A paragraph about her birth
  • Newborn photos from a few minutes after birth
  • Newborn photos from a few days after birth
  • A keepsake birth certificate
  • Baptism photos and a portion of the baptismal prayer
  • Photos with family and scripture about family
  • Baby feet

I'm hoping to read the book to our firstborn, 16 months now, to help her understand that she's been special and loved from the first moments of her existence and, secondarily, to help her understand what will happen when her little sister is born. I'd also like it to be something she can read and enjoy as she grows older. Any other suggestions? What would you put in a baby book? Any other scripture passages that would be good for the littlest's baby book?
God Bless,
Meghan

Monday, October 10, 2011

Guest Post: Neighborhood

For the past three years we've lived in a little apartment in Manhattan. For the first two years, I was lukewarm on Manhattan. In the third year, I eventually grew to like the city. I enjoyed walking everywhere and having so many interesting activities nearby. Manhattan is not friendly for families or Christians but the difficulties create a common bond and eagerness to help others. Learning to live with two, then three people in an oddly arranged 350 sq ft apartment was difficult.

When my husband and I were first married and moved in together, we both had some furniture and a lot of possessions. Our apartment was so full that it was frustrating to move about. The apartment became more comfortable as we gradually got rid of a lot of stuff but even with creative furniture solutions, the layout of the apartment remained problematic. Our building was originally a hotel and our apartment was part of the lobby. There were two rooms - a separate10ft by 10ft kitchen, really just a 10 ft by 10 ft room with a stove, sink and refrigerator, and a main room with an amazingly high ceiling, even higher than the room was long or wide, and an enormous window with beautiful stained glass detailing at the top. It was a lovely space, especially by NYC standards, but difficult because common activities didn't fit well in this layout. I'd prefer to sleep somewhere quiet, dark, and secluded but the main room was always light, even at night, and always had significant ambient noise of people entering and leaving the building during the day and delivery trucks entering and leaving the building across the street at night. I'd prefer to study and cook somewhere light and vibrant but the table had to go in the dark, secluded kitchen.

Life in our Houston apartment feels luxuriously comfortable. We have a 650 sq ft apartment with one bedroom. The apartment has a beautiful layout with a light-filled great room composed of a living space, a dining space, and a kitchen with counters, cupboards, and even a dishwasher, a bedroom with a walk-in closet, and a bathroom with a washer and a dryer. Eating, sleeping, and other daily activities fit comfortably in the space. Even better than the layout is the fantastic location. I didn't dare hope to find a walkable neighborhood in Texas but they exist! Within a quarter mile radius of our apartment there is a Catholic church, two grocery stores, and a host of interesting shops. It's awesome.

There are some obvious benefits to living in a walkable neighborhood related to physical health, community, and environment. We're all healthier from walking a few miles a day and we've met some nice people nearby. On weekdays, my husband's short commute gives us family time. When he takes the car to work, we're still able to go run errands and play at the pool or the park. He can also comfortably ride a bike to work, take the bus to work, or I can drop him off. If our children were older, they could exercise their independence safely and productively by walking or bicycling to a variety of good activities. Rent in our walkable neighborhood is somewhat higher but a quick calculation bundling monthly rent together with commute-related gasoline costs leveled the differences.

I've recently heard many bloggers, writers, and TV hosts sing the praises of walkable neighborhoods more eloquently than I have done above. There's a great post from the Witherspoon Institute with a stronger and more interesting position - that living in walkable, mixed-use neighborhoods is good for humans and encourages virtue http://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2011/07/3379. I find Phillip Bess' positions intuitive and compelling.

It seems obvious now, but it hadn't occurred to me previously how big of an impact neighborhood and environment can make on our daily thoughts and inclinations. I am weak and would like to arrange for as much external encouragement towards virtue as I reasonably can. Thanks in advance for your thoughts and comments. God bless.
God Bless,
Meghan